What if you forgave yourself? What if you forgave yourself for whatever you think it is that you did, didn’t do, was done to you that you couldn’t prevent, didn’t think, say, didn’t know? What if you let yourself/them, off the hook for the mistakes you supposedly made, they supposedly made and called those things ‘lesson’? What if everything in your life was done for you, not to you? What if there was nothing to forgive, but everything to ‘for give’? What if life was for giving to you? What if forgiving and forgetting was for giving and for getting for you, for your benefit? What if you forgave yourself? Forgave them? How would you feel? Who would you be? What would that look like? What if?