A healthy relationship is based on truth. Not some of the truth, but all of it. Telling the other person your whole truth, allows them to know you, trust you, be in relationship by choice and in so doing, tell you their truth. When you tell the whole truth, you are releasing the manipulation of other and giving them the opportunity to stay because you are revealing, not concealing all aspects of who you are. You are not only giving them a chance to know you, and accept all of you, you are giving them a chance to know themselves and accept all of themselves. In respecting them and yourself, in speaking the whole truth of self, you are allowing real intimacy, (Into Me I See).